Stops the comparison

The comparison is part of human nature to compete with others is a reflex, look what our neighbor is something current. But this is not the attitude that God wants us to have. He created us so that we are ourselves, with our own personality. He made each of us unique creatures! And the worst behaviors we can have is to constantly compare ourselves. 

If your destiny is different from that of your neighbor, this is normal: God has a particular future for all of us. So He gives us each different skills and gifts, and this is normal: we all have a different goal to achieve.

You feel that the destiny of your neighbor is better? Good for him! But know that it is necessarily false because there is no better destiny than that which God has planned for your life. If you think that your neighbor is better lives, you are mistaken! He saw the plan that God has planned for him, and this plan is different from yours. This is why it is pointless to compare. God has made each of us unique, and we should be proud of our differences, they are our charm, our values, they make us exceptional beings. COMPARE OURSELVES TO OTHERS OFTEN LEADS US TO WANT TO BE LIKE THE OTHER, RATHER THAN TRYING TO IMITATE GOD, IT STIFLES OUR PERSONALITY AND DISTANCES US FROM GOD BLESSINGS. IN FACT, IF WE GO INTO THE MOLD OF OUR SOCIETY, WE CAN NO LONGER FOLLOW THE PATH THAT GOD HAS MARKED OUT FOR US. LEARN TO ACCEPT OURSELVES AS WE ARE, WITHOUT LOOKING AT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE LIVE; ACCEPT THIS LIFE WITH JESUS IN WHICH FIND SALVATION, GRACE, GOD FAVOR. WE DO NOT COMPARE OURSELVES, BUT TO RECEIVE FROM GOD! THIS IS THE BEST GIFT THAT YOU CAN GIVE US. LET US COMPARE THE WORLD BECAUSE GOD HAS SET APART FOR HIS SERVICE.  IF GOD ACCEPTS US AS WE ARE, HE ALSO HAS THE DESIRE TO EVOLVE, HE WANTS TO DEVELOP THE POTENTIAL HE HAS PLACED IN US. COMPARE OUR APPROACH WITH THAT OF OUR NEIGHBOR BRINGS US TO MEDDLE IN WHAT DOES NOT CONCERN US, IF I WERE HIM, I WOULD NOT BE DRIVING THE SAME WAY. IN DOING SO, WE TAKE CARE OF THINGS THAT DO NOT CONCERN US, AND IT IS NOT OUR ROLE. WE MUST FOLLOW JESUS AND NOT JUDGE THE BEHAVIOR OF OUR NEIGHBOR. BY FOCUSING TOO MUCH ON THE FACT THAT YOUR OPINIONS DIFFER FROM THOSE OF YOUR NEIGHBOR OR YOUR DESIGNS ARE DIFFERENT, YOU END UP AWAY FROM GOD PLAN, PUTTING A DAMPER ON YOUR DEVELOPMENT. THE MAIN THING IN OUR LIVES IS TO FOLLOW JESUS, AND REALIZE THE UNIQUE PLAN GOD HAS FOR OUR LIVES!